Well, I never did finish blogging about the ABC's of Christmas. The rest: U is for understand, V is for volunteer, W is for worship, x is for eXamine(examine your past Christmas habits. Ask yourself which habits you should keep and which habits you need to eliminate. Y is for yield Avoid overspending...yield to God and his perfect guidance toward good stewardship. Z is for zero, Zero in on how you and your family can keep Christ in Christmas.
I've been enjoying my vacation. So far I've read two books and Adam and I are reading a chapter book together. We're having fun playing with all their new toys and pretty much just doing anything we want!
I hope everyone had a memorable Christmas and have a great New Years!
Monday, December 29, 2008
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Tradition
Well, we are getting closer to the end of the alphabet. T is for Tradition. We started a new tradition last year. We give the boys three gifts each, just like the wise men gave Jesus. I like this idea, because it takes a lot of the focus off gifts and also keeps me from getting so overwhelmed about what to get them. This year we let the boys open their gifts today. It was so much fun watching them. Daniel would start really slow and when he saw what the present was he would go into warp speed! To cute. One of the gifts Adam received was Adventures in Odyssey on cd. He asked what it was and we told him it's storied on cd. He said, "Cool, I can just sit and listen and have to sound anything out!" Caleb had a lot of fun trying to eat the wrapping paper. :)
I probably will not post tomorrow, so U is for Understand. Tomorrow..."Make sure your child understands that there is more to Christmas than gifts and decorations. It is a time to spend with loved ones. Tell her/him that Jesus is the reason for the season."
Merry Christmas everyone!
I probably will not post tomorrow, so U is for Understand. Tomorrow..."Make sure your child understands that there is more to Christmas than gifts and decorations. It is a time to spend with loved ones. Tell her/him that Jesus is the reason for the season."
Merry Christmas everyone!
Thursday, December 18, 2008
R is for Reflect
"Reflect on what Christmas meant to you over the years. Talk with your family about how each family member can make the holidays even more special. Make a list of the ideas. Then hang the list where everyone can see it."
I've been thinking about this today and I've decided, I'm over-booking Christmas. You know, like when you get on a flight only to find out they've over-booked and you can't get on, someone misses out on their flight. This is very frustrating, to say the least! I tend to get over excited about things, I know that's hard to believe. I plan to many things and end up getting overwhelmed and not doing hardly anything. Then we miss out on something. Well, my boys tend to bring me back to reality...
Wednesday evening, Adam, asked me if Christmas is Jesus birthday than is everyone who has lights on their houses and trees up a Christian? I tell you what, the questions this boy comes up with! When I told him no, he wanted to know if their not than why are they celebrating Jesus' birthday? This conversation went on for awhile. Bless his heart, every house we see now he wonders if they know Jesus.
We didn't get the list of ideas done today, but I already have an idea to add. Instead of caroling, how about witnessing?? This is way out of my comfort zone, but the idea of knocking on one of those doors with Adam and talking to them about Jesus warms me up and makes me a little nervous :)
Tomorrow, S is for Spirit. "Allow the Holy Spirit to guide you to the true meaning of Christmas and then share it with others."
I've been thinking about this today and I've decided, I'm over-booking Christmas. You know, like when you get on a flight only to find out they've over-booked and you can't get on, someone misses out on their flight. This is very frustrating, to say the least! I tend to get over excited about things, I know that's hard to believe. I plan to many things and end up getting overwhelmed and not doing hardly anything. Then we miss out on something. Well, my boys tend to bring me back to reality...
Wednesday evening, Adam, asked me if Christmas is Jesus birthday than is everyone who has lights on their houses and trees up a Christian? I tell you what, the questions this boy comes up with! When I told him no, he wanted to know if their not than why are they celebrating Jesus' birthday? This conversation went on for awhile. Bless his heart, every house we see now he wonders if they know Jesus.
We didn't get the list of ideas done today, but I already have an idea to add. Instead of caroling, how about witnessing?? This is way out of my comfort zone, but the idea of knocking on one of those doors with Adam and talking to them about Jesus warms me up and makes me a little nervous :)
Tomorrow, S is for Spirit. "Allow the Holy Spirit to guide you to the true meaning of Christmas and then share it with others."
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Q is for Quiet
"Take time this holiday to sit quietly, pray, and think about the birth of Jesus and what it means to you."
I asked the kids today what the birth of Jesus means to them and this is what they said:
Cousin #1: "Jesus was born so He could some day die on the cross and save us from our sins."
Cousin #2: "So he could save us."
My Big Man: "So I could become a Christian."
My Middle Man: "Baby Jesus is like our baby."
Today I was remembering when Middle Man was born. It was around Christmas and as I was nursing him some people came to the hospital and caroled around the rooms for the patients. It was so special to hear the songs of praise and think about what it was like for Mary holding baby Jesus in her arms. The thought is somewhat overwhelming. One of my favorite Christmas songs is "Mary Did You Know?" Hear is the lyrics;
"Mary Did You Know"
[Originally written by Mark Lowry and Buddy Greene]
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy would one day walk on water?
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy would save our sons and daughters?
Did you know
that your Baby Boy has come to make you new?
This Child that you delivered will soon deliver you.
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy will give sight to a blind man?
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy will calm the storm with His hand?
Did you know
that your Baby Boy has walked where angels trod?
When you kiss your little Baby you kissed the face of God?
Mary did you know.. Ooo Ooo Ooo
The blind will see.
The deaf will hear.
The dead will live again.
The lame will leap.
The dumb will speak
The praises of The Lamb.
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy is Lord of all creation?
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy would one day rule the nations?
Did you know
that your Baby Boy is heaven's perfect Lamb?
The sleeping Child you're holding is the Great, I Am.
I asked the kids today what the birth of Jesus means to them and this is what they said:
Cousin #1: "Jesus was born so He could some day die on the cross and save us from our sins."
Cousin #2: "So he could save us."
My Big Man: "So I could become a Christian."
My Middle Man: "Baby Jesus is like our baby."
Today I was remembering when Middle Man was born. It was around Christmas and as I was nursing him some people came to the hospital and caroled around the rooms for the patients. It was so special to hear the songs of praise and think about what it was like for Mary holding baby Jesus in her arms. The thought is somewhat overwhelming. One of my favorite Christmas songs is "Mary Did You Know?" Hear is the lyrics;
"Mary Did You Know"
[Originally written by Mark Lowry and Buddy Greene]
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy would one day walk on water?
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy would save our sons and daughters?
Did you know
that your Baby Boy has come to make you new?
This Child that you delivered will soon deliver you.
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy will give sight to a blind man?
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy will calm the storm with His hand?
Did you know
that your Baby Boy has walked where angels trod?
When you kiss your little Baby you kissed the face of God?
Mary did you know.. Ooo Ooo Ooo
The blind will see.
The deaf will hear.
The dead will live again.
The lame will leap.
The dumb will speak
The praises of The Lamb.
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy is Lord of all creation?
Mary, did you know
that your Baby Boy would one day rule the nations?
Did you know
that your Baby Boy is heaven's perfect Lamb?
The sleeping Child you're holding is the Great, I Am.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Peace and Quiet?
I didn't get to post yesterday, but it was O is for Openness. Openly tell others about your relationship with Jesus. This is very easy for me to do with children. For some reason though, it's sometimes hard for me to be open with other adults.
Well, today is P is for Peace. As soon as I read that I was thinking, "I wish" :) But, one thing I have learned with my boys, is that peace doesn't always come hand in hand with quiet. Peace to me means having an inner calmness, feeling at peace, safe, knowing God has everything under control. When I did a search for the definition of peace, I found these:
Inner contentment; serenity: peace of mind.
Freedom from quarrels and disagreement; harmonious relations: roommates living in peace with each other
There has been times when someone would say to me things like, "I bet it's loud at your house" or "Three boys! Well God bless you" The thing is God has blessed me. Yes it is loud at my house, but it's also peaceful, most of the time:)
I got the following from the magazine:
After the birth of Jesus, the angels appeared and said, "Glory to God in the highest heaven, and peace on earth to people He favors." (Luke 2:14)
Discuss this verse with your family. How can you help bring peace?
Tomorrow Q is for quiet. Imagine that:)
Well, today is P is for Peace. As soon as I read that I was thinking, "I wish" :) But, one thing I have learned with my boys, is that peace doesn't always come hand in hand with quiet. Peace to me means having an inner calmness, feeling at peace, safe, knowing God has everything under control. When I did a search for the definition of peace, I found these:
Inner contentment; serenity: peace of mind.
Freedom from quarrels and disagreement; harmonious relations: roommates living in peace with each other
There has been times when someone would say to me things like, "I bet it's loud at your house" or "Three boys! Well God bless you" The thing is God has blessed me. Yes it is loud at my house, but it's also peaceful, most of the time:)
I got the following from the magazine:
After the birth of Jesus, the angels appeared and said, "Glory to God in the highest heaven, and peace on earth to people He favors." (Luke 2:14)
Discuss this verse with your family. How can you help bring peace?
Tomorrow Q is for quiet. Imagine that:)
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Nourish
"Nourish your soul by praying and making a stronger commitment to reading your Bible every day."
Today was definitely a day that nourished my soul. We had baby dedication this morning. It's special to me, because it helps to remind me of my commitment to raise my children in the Lord. It's hard work and overwhelming at times, but when you have God to help you and a whole church to also help you, it's a very comforting feeling.
Take some time today to remember the birth of our Savior today. Let Him nourish every part of you!
Here are the pictures I promised:
My middle man: He said he wanted to show Jesus his Christmas.
My big man:
He is hanging his ornaments as high as he can, so his brothers can't reach them.
Today was definitely a day that nourished my soul. We had baby dedication this morning. It's special to me, because it helps to remind me of my commitment to raise my children in the Lord. It's hard work and overwhelming at times, but when you have God to help you and a whole church to also help you, it's a very comforting feeling.
Take some time today to remember the birth of our Savior today. Let Him nourish every part of you!
Here are the pictures I promised:
My middle man: He said he wanted to show Jesus his Christmas.
My big man:
He is hanging his ornaments as high as he can, so his brothers can't reach them.
Friday, December 12, 2008
Light
Matthew 5:16 "Let your light shine before men, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven."
My favorite verses are ones that speak of light. Psalm 119:105, Phil 2:15, and many others. I'm reminded of those verses today as I look at our Christmas tree and take pictures of my boys. The rest of the pictures are on my phone and I don't know how to download those. I'll post them next time. This one is of my baby man. If you sit him anywhere on the floor he will roll to the tree and play with the lights. Well, we have a big day of baking today!
Tomorrow: M is for money...saving not spending:)
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Random Acts of Kindness
K is for Kindness today! I found this in a magazine...
Random Acts of Kindness
Make the holidays more meaningful by trying some of the following acts of kindness. Others will appreciate your kindness and you will feel blessed.
*Say thank you even for the smallest acts of kindness.
*Open a door for someone.
*Allow the person behind you in a checkout line to go ahead of you.
*Bake cookies for firefighters at a fire station or nurses at a nearby hospital.
*Volunteer to read a story to an elementary school class or during story time at your local library.
*Take out the trash for someone else.
*Purchase a meal for someone who needs one.
*Make holiday cards with your child and visit a local nursing home to distribute them to elderly people.
To me random acts of kindness means you don't plan them, you just do them, randomly. So, the idea of planning to do them seemed a little weird to me, at first. Unfortunately, I get so wrapped up in the everyday of my life that I don't think about what others "everyday" looks like. Honestly, I was feeling very overwhelmed last night...how many gifts do we have left to get? What should we get everyone? I need to get everything mailed off. When do you get paid again??? I know I'm chasing rabbits here, bear with me. I decided today that I would have to make a complete turn-around. I want my kids to KNOW and LIVE the truth. The truth being, it doesn't really matter! What really matters is family, friends, neighbors, people, and showing the love of Jesus to all of them.
Believe me, I'm preaching to myself here! Let me know if you have any Random Acts of Kindness to share.
Random Acts of Kindness
Make the holidays more meaningful by trying some of the following acts of kindness. Others will appreciate your kindness and you will feel blessed.
*Say thank you even for the smallest acts of kindness.
*Open a door for someone.
*Allow the person behind you in a checkout line to go ahead of you.
*Bake cookies for firefighters at a fire station or nurses at a nearby hospital.
*Volunteer to read a story to an elementary school class or during story time at your local library.
*Take out the trash for someone else.
*Purchase a meal for someone who needs one.
*Make holiday cards with your child and visit a local nursing home to distribute them to elderly people.
To me random acts of kindness means you don't plan them, you just do them, randomly. So, the idea of planning to do them seemed a little weird to me, at first. Unfortunately, I get so wrapped up in the everyday of my life that I don't think about what others "everyday" looks like. Honestly, I was feeling very overwhelmed last night...how many gifts do we have left to get? What should we get everyone? I need to get everything mailed off. When do you get paid again??? I know I'm chasing rabbits here, bear with me. I decided today that I would have to make a complete turn-around. I want my kids to KNOW and LIVE the truth. The truth being, it doesn't really matter! What really matters is family, friends, neighbors, people, and showing the love of Jesus to all of them.
Believe me, I'm preaching to myself here! Let me know if you have any Random Acts of Kindness to share.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
The Reason for the Season
So, I didn't get to post yesterday. I was busy cleaning my house from top to bottom. Although, as I look around now, you can't tell a bit! Gotta love boys:) At least everything is sterilized.
Well, I did mention in my last post that yesterday was Invite for I. Today is J is for Jesus. I love to read to my boys. It is one of our traditions to read a Christmas story every night in December. My goal is to have 25 different ones, kind-of like a countdown to Christmas. There are so many books out there that have wonderful illustrations and sweet story lines. But, none of them should take the place of reading the story right from the Bible. This year I plan on having Adam help read it, I'll have to get the video camera out!
We have a lot of fun with the boys. They love to sing Christmas songs and look at lights. It's just that the time we have been given with our children is very precious to me. Why spend it doing things that they can't take with them?
Have a blast this season, celebrating the birth of our Savior!
Well, I did mention in my last post that yesterday was Invite for I. Today is J is for Jesus. I love to read to my boys. It is one of our traditions to read a Christmas story every night in December. My goal is to have 25 different ones, kind-of like a countdown to Christmas. There are so many books out there that have wonderful illustrations and sweet story lines. But, none of them should take the place of reading the story right from the Bible. This year I plan on having Adam help read it, I'll have to get the video camera out!
We have a lot of fun with the boys. They love to sing Christmas songs and look at lights. It's just that the time we have been given with our children is very precious to me. Why spend it doing things that they can't take with them?
Have a blast this season, celebrating the birth of our Savior!
Monday, December 8, 2008
H is for Happiness
"Bring joy and happiness to others by doing simple things, such as surprising a neighbor with a freshly baked batch of cookies."
The boys thought that it would be really nice if we raked our neighbors yard so they could have fun jumping in the pile of leaves! I had fun explaining to them that their idea of fun probably wasn't the same as our neighbors. They're an elderly couple :)
Tomorrow, "I is for Invitation" Invite someone to church with you, or have them over for a visit.
The boys thought that it would be really nice if we raked our neighbors yard so they could have fun jumping in the pile of leaves! I had fun explaining to them that their idea of fun probably wasn't the same as our neighbors. They're an elderly couple :)
Tomorrow, "I is for Invitation" Invite someone to church with you, or have them over for a visit.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
G is for Give
Today is, G is for Give. It simply says, "Remember the gift God gave to you- Jesus! Give to others this Christmas."
I don't give as often as I would like. I don't have the money or don't know who to give to..... Well, I found out about this ministry through Angie Smith's blog http://audreycaroline.blogspot.com/ (She's the wife of lead singer Selah) Anyway the ministry link is http://nilmdts.com/start.php It's a non-profit photography organization, infant bereavement. I'm not explaining it very well. If you'd like to know more visit the site. Anyway, I have a link at the bottom of my blog that you could use as a search engine. Every time you search you help raise money for NILMDTS. If you go to IGive you can get the same thing for any cause you like.
I have some really cute pictures of the boys I plan on posting soon. Today my baby is sick:( So, till tomorrow...
I don't give as often as I would like. I don't have the money or don't know who to give to..... Well, I found out about this ministry through Angie Smith's blog http://audreycaroline.blogspot.com/ (She's the wife of lead singer Selah) Anyway the ministry link is http://nilmdts.com/start.php It's a non-profit photography organization, infant bereavement. I'm not explaining it very well. If you'd like to know more visit the site. Anyway, I have a link at the bottom of my blog that you could use as a search engine. Every time you search you help raise money for NILMDTS. If you go to IGive you can get the same thing for any cause you like.
I have some really cute pictures of the boys I plan on posting soon. Today my baby is sick:( So, till tomorrow...
Saturday, December 6, 2008
What's a friend?
So, F is for Friend. For me a friend is someone you can talk to about things you're going through, no matter what it is. A friend is someone who will listen and be there for you. A friend is someone who wants to know you...all of you.
This song came to mind today:
This song came to mind today:
What a friend we have in Jesus,
all our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry
everything to God in prayer!
O what peace we often forfeit,
O what needless pain we bear,
all because we do not carry
everything to God in prayer.
2. Have we trials and temptations?
Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged;
take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a friend so faithful
who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness;
take it to the Lord in prayer.
3. Are we weak and heavy laden,
cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our refuge;
take it to the Lord in prayer.
Do thy friends despise, forsake thee?
Take it to the Lord in prayer!
In his arms he'll take and shield thee;
thou wilt find a solace there.
Today we are celebrating Danny's birthday! He has been singing "Happy Birthday" to
himself all morning. It goes something like this; "Happy birfday to me happy birfday
to me happy birfday to Danel, happy birfday to me!" It's just not the same without
hearing him. Too funny :)
Friday, December 5, 2008
E is for Encourage
Here are some of my favorite encouraging verses:
Revelation 21:4
He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."
2 Corinthians 1:3-5
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows.
Philippians 4:6
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
There are so many verses that are like medicine to my soul. I have had many times when these verses are the only thing that speaks to me. I hope everyone spreads encouragement today! Tomorrow kind-of goes hand-in-hand with today. F is for Friends. Call a friend tomorrow and let her/him that you're thinking of her/him.
Revelation 21:4
He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."
2 Corinthians 1:3-5
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows.
Philippians 4:6
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
There are so many verses that are like medicine to my soul. I have had many times when these verses are the only thing that speaks to me. I hope everyone spreads encouragement today! Tomorrow kind-of goes hand-in-hand with today. F is for Friends. Call a friend tomorrow and let her/him that you're thinking of her/him.
Thursday, December 4, 2008
D is for Donate
There are sooo many things to donate to! I didn't have to think to long though...we will be donating to Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep: 
Now I lay Me Down To Sleep - ~Infant Bereavement Photography
This was founded in 2005, two years after our Todd. If it wasn't for my family members I wouldn't have any pictures at all of Todd. I was able to make a scrapbook with the pictures taken. Well, this just seemed like the perfect place to donate to.
Tomorrow, E is for Encourage, I challenge all my family members and friends to say one word of encouragement to someone every day in December!
This was founded in 2005, two years after our Todd. If it wasn't for my family members I wouldn't have any pictures at all of Todd. I was able to make a scrapbook with the pictures taken. Well, this just seemed like the perfect place to donate to.
Tomorrow, E is for Encourage, I challenge all my family members and friends to say one word of encouragement to someone every day in December!
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
C is for Carols
Today we will be singing our hearts out! We are listening to Christmas music now, at 7:00 in the morning! Way to early to be up and going. Anyway, get out there and sing some Christmas songs today. I plan on going caroling sometime this month...maybe I can convince my extended family to go with me.
Tomorrow we will decide on a program to donate to. (D is for donate) Does anyone have any ideas?
Tomorrow we will decide on a program to donate to. (D is for donate) Does anyone have any ideas?
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
B is for Blessings
So, today we are counting our blessings. Honestly, this was not easy for me today. I had to take my sweet baby to get his shots:( This is usually daddy's job. Plus, I had errands to run and house to clean and school to teach... Well, I decided not to run the errands and go to McDonald's instead. Caleb did really well and is now taking a nap. I still have a house to clean, but with three boys that will always be there! :)
That being said, my most precious blessing is my husband. He has such a strong faith in God and is a great daddy! He is very good about putting me first and teaches the boys to respect me. We've had some pretty tough times and it hasn't always been easy, but I wouldn't have chosen anyone else to share my life with.
Blessings number two, three, four, and five are my boys. Todd, I look forward to the day when we will be reunited. Adam, my big man, Daniel, my middle man, and Caleb, my baby man. They are so absolutely precious! Even on the days when they add more gray hairs to my head(yes, I said more). I have days when I just want to have a sit down with God and ask Him to explain to me how He thinks I can raise three boys! It's overwhelming at times. But, then He lets me know that I'm not on my own. I don't know why I have to always be reminded of this. God always gives me just what I need, exactly when I need it. Plus, He gave me a wonderful husband who is the best partner I could ask for. My family, stressful at times, definetly messy, but absolutely priceless!
Adam's blessings: Caleb, Daniel, and our whole family. I'm a Christian and I don't have to be afraid of stuff.
Daniel's blessings: football, food to eat, cupcakes, and McDonald's.
That being said, my most precious blessing is my husband. He has such a strong faith in God and is a great daddy! He is very good about putting me first and teaches the boys to respect me. We've had some pretty tough times and it hasn't always been easy, but I wouldn't have chosen anyone else to share my life with.
Blessings number two, three, four, and five are my boys. Todd, I look forward to the day when we will be reunited. Adam, my big man, Daniel, my middle man, and Caleb, my baby man. They are so absolutely precious! Even on the days when they add more gray hairs to my head(yes, I said more). I have days when I just want to have a sit down with God and ask Him to explain to me how He thinks I can raise three boys! It's overwhelming at times. But, then He lets me know that I'm not on my own. I don't know why I have to always be reminded of this. God always gives me just what I need, exactly when I need it. Plus, He gave me a wonderful husband who is the best partner I could ask for. My family, stressful at times, definetly messy, but absolutely priceless!
Adam's blessings: Caleb, Daniel, and our whole family. I'm a Christian and I don't have to be afraid of stuff.
Daniel's blessings: football, food to eat, cupcakes, and McDonald's.
Monday, December 1, 2008
The ABC's of Christmas
This morning I was looking through some old magazines and found on article in Parent Life. The ABC's of Keeping Christ in Christmas. It provides a list from A to Z with ideas of things you can talk about and activities to do as a family throughout December. I remember trying to do this last year, we did some, but this year my goal is to do every single one. I will also be blogging about them, maybe every other day.
Today we did A: Accept- Accept responsibility to model your faith this season.
We talked about how we can show others how we love Jesus by the way we act. The idea of modeling our faith made an impression on Adam. He thought it was really cool that he didn't have to always tell people about Jesus, but he could show them. Here are some ideas Adam came up with to put it into action:
1. Let Daniel jump on the trampoline more than me.
2. Give Caleb a toy when he's crying.
3. Help clean up without complaining.
4. Tell people thank you and Merry Christmas when we are at Wal-mart.
5. Let others get in line first.
Tomorrow we will be counting our Blessings. The song Count Your Many Blessings has been on my mind all day.
Merry Christmas!
Today we did A: Accept- Accept responsibility to model your faith this season.
We talked about how we can show others how we love Jesus by the way we act. The idea of modeling our faith made an impression on Adam. He thought it was really cool that he didn't have to always tell people about Jesus, but he could show them. Here are some ideas Adam came up with to put it into action:
1. Let Daniel jump on the trampoline more than me.
2. Give Caleb a toy when he's crying.
3. Help clean up without complaining.
4. Tell people thank you and Merry Christmas when we are at Wal-mart.
5. Let others get in line first.
Tomorrow we will be counting our Blessings. The song Count Your Many Blessings has been on my mind all day.
Merry Christmas!
Friday, November 7, 2008
God smart
The other day we were taking a walk and I asked Daniel what color a leaf was. "Orange", he said with confidence. (It was green) I told him it was green and then asked him who made the leaf. He said "God did!" O.k. so maybe I'm bragging just a little. It's just that here lately I've been stressing out about the education of my boys. Do they know all they are suppose to? Will Adam be on track when he starts first grade? Does Daniel know all his shapes and colors? Apparently not :) But, even though Dan didn't know what color the leaf was, he did know that God made it. Which is more important? I guess it all depends on who you ask.
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 says; 'These commandments I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.' There are many, many verses on parenting. I have yet to find any that say my son should know all of his colors by the time he's three.
I do think their education is important, that's why I was stressing to begin with. It's just that God has a way of helping me put things into perspective. Sometime it's through my husband, sons, or other people. Most of the time it's through His scripture. I'm very thankful for the Bible today.
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 says; 'These commandments I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.' There are many, many verses on parenting. I have yet to find any that say my son should know all of his colors by the time he's three.
I do think their education is important, that's why I was stressing to begin with. It's just that God has a way of helping me put things into perspective. Sometime it's through my husband, sons, or other people. Most of the time it's through His scripture. I'm very thankful for the Bible today.
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
God and interior design
Wow, it's been a long time since I have blogged! Since than I've been very busy with homeschooling, potty training, playing with baby, Bible study, and lots more. I'm still doing those things, just learning to schedule my time better. That's kind of what the Bible study is about, more on that some other time.
Adam was having one of his conversations with God the other night, I was blessed to hear it. He was telling God exactly how he wanted his house in Heaven to look. He wants it to be blue, with two floors, and an Xbox in every room. He went on and on about the details of his house. It has a play room with one of those jump houses and no pink things are allowed.
It got me thinking...about Todd...about Heaven...about family...about what it will be like. I would like to think that I will know Todd and he will know me. Are his eyes blue like Adam and Caleb or are they green like Daniel? Will my sons still know each other? Will they get to met their big brother? Will I be able to ask God all of the questions I'm thinking of now?
God knows. We can't even begin to imagine. I think that's part of the joy, the excitment, the surprise, the anticipation of Heaven.
Adam was having one of his conversations with God the other night, I was blessed to hear it. He was telling God exactly how he wanted his house in Heaven to look. He wants it to be blue, with two floors, and an Xbox in every room. He went on and on about the details of his house. It has a play room with one of those jump houses and no pink things are allowed.
It got me thinking...about Todd...about Heaven...about family...about what it will be like. I would like to think that I will know Todd and he will know me. Are his eyes blue like Adam and Caleb or are they green like Daniel? Will my sons still know each other? Will they get to met their big brother? Will I be able to ask God all of the questions I'm thinking of now?
God knows. We can't even begin to imagine. I think that's part of the joy, the excitment, the surprise, the anticipation of Heaven.
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Adam's story...just the beginning
This morning Adam accepted Christ as his Savior! Let me tell you about it...
I've been trying to get the boys on a schedule, since we start school next week. So, at 9:00a.m. we started reading from the Bible. As I was talking about what God made on the third day Adam announces that he does not want to do this. I found myself growing frustrated and told him he wasn't going to get on the computer.(I made him get off for Bible study) He told me 'No mommy, I don't want to do this, I want to pray.' I said,'Oh, o.k.' and started praying, my patient son then said, 'No mommy, I want to pray.' I asked him what he wanted to pray about and he said he wanted to pray 'that prayer' he wanted to be a Christian. My hands started shaking...tears forming...'What do you think it means to be a Christian Adam?', 'When you ask God to forgive your sins and be with you forever,' he said. We talked about the ABC's of being a Christian. Admit that you are a sinner, Romans 3:23 Believe that Jesus is God's Son and accept God's gift of forgiveness, John 3:16 Confess your faith in Jesus Christ as Savior, Romans 10:9-10.
Adam said he knew he was a sinner and wanted to tell God he was sorry. He wanted God to save him so he didn't have to be afraid anymore. (Adam tends to be a bit shy, very leery about things) He told me he didn't want to use those big words, so I told him he just needed to tell God what he was feeling. This is what he said, to the best of my memory:
"Dear God,
I know that I sin and I'm sorry. Please save me. I want to go to Heaven someday. Thank you for dying on the cross for me. I want you to be with me always so I don't have to be afraid of anything. Thank you for saving me. Amen"
After he prayed he gave me a great big hug and tears started running down my face. He looked at me, wondering what was wrong. I told that I was o.k. that sometimes I cry when I'm happy. He didn't quit understand that, but was fine with it. Then he said, 'Now I'm just like my daddy!' More tears...more hugs...and laughing.
The Bible study ended with loading up the minivan and going to the mall to tell daddy all about our morning. Adam's morning...the beginning of his story.
I've been trying to get the boys on a schedule, since we start school next week. So, at 9:00a.m. we started reading from the Bible. As I was talking about what God made on the third day Adam announces that he does not want to do this. I found myself growing frustrated and told him he wasn't going to get on the computer.(I made him get off for Bible study) He told me 'No mommy, I don't want to do this, I want to pray.' I said,'Oh, o.k.' and started praying, my patient son then said, 'No mommy, I want to pray.' I asked him what he wanted to pray about and he said he wanted to pray 'that prayer' he wanted to be a Christian. My hands started shaking...tears forming...'What do you think it means to be a Christian Adam?', 'When you ask God to forgive your sins and be with you forever,' he said. We talked about the ABC's of being a Christian. Admit that you are a sinner, Romans 3:23 Believe that Jesus is God's Son and accept God's gift of forgiveness, John 3:16 Confess your faith in Jesus Christ as Savior, Romans 10:9-10.
Adam said he knew he was a sinner and wanted to tell God he was sorry. He wanted God to save him so he didn't have to be afraid anymore. (Adam tends to be a bit shy, very leery about things) He told me he didn't want to use those big words, so I told him he just needed to tell God what he was feeling. This is what he said, to the best of my memory:
"Dear God,
I know that I sin and I'm sorry. Please save me. I want to go to Heaven someday. Thank you for dying on the cross for me. I want you to be with me always so I don't have to be afraid of anything. Thank you for saving me. Amen"
After he prayed he gave me a great big hug and tears started running down my face. He looked at me, wondering what was wrong. I told that I was o.k. that sometimes I cry when I'm happy. He didn't quit understand that, but was fine with it. Then he said, 'Now I'm just like my daddy!' More tears...more hugs...and laughing.
The Bible study ended with loading up the minivan and going to the mall to tell daddy all about our morning. Adam's morning...the beginning of his story.
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Ben-Hur and me
This morning I woke up to feed Caleb his bottle at about 6a.m. He actually fell back asleep and the other boys were still sleeping, so I thought I would have a nice quiet time with my Savior. Then the boys woke up. :) I'm finding it very difficult to arrange my schedule so I can have a quiet time. You may be thinking, what about now instead of blogging? I managed to get the boys interested in breakfast while I had time in another room. :) Anyway, I wanted to share what I read out of Our Daily Bread, so here it is:
'Lew Wallace's book Ben-Hur tells the story of a Jewish aristocrat betrayed by his friend and condemned to serve as a galley slave in the Roman navy. On a forced march to the ship, Judah Ben-Hur meets Jesus of Nazareth, whose compassion fills him with hope. Eventually, Ben-Hur saves the Roman commander during battle. In gratitude, the commander adopts Ben-Hur as his son, instantly elevating him from slave to heir.
That's what happens to us when God adopts us into his family. But great privilege brings great responsibility. Paul said that we become "heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him" (Rom. 8:17) The gospel does not say"Come to Jesus and live happily ever after." God's syllabus for His children's education includes training through hardships.
Ben-Hur's years of enduring hardship as a roman slave strengthened him and increased his endurance. He eventually defeated his "friend-turned-enemy" in a chariot race.
As endurance and training were key to Ben-Hur's victory, so are they vital in the Christian's war with sin and evil. The hard times we endure are God's way to prepare us for greater service for His glory.'
As I look back on my life I think of the hardships and joys. The hardest thing I've had to go through is losing my son, Todd. It was such a shock and certainly nothing I ever thought I'd have to go through. There were questions, why me? what did I do? why didn't You work a miracle? The thing is I didn't 'do' anything, losing Todd was not punishment for anything. Also, God did work a miracle, just not in the way I would have chose. He showed me what His comfort feels like and how to comfort others. He showed me how to be joyful while I'm suffering. He showed me that even though I will go through hard times I will always have Him, I will never lose God. Again, I would never have chosen to say goodbye to my son, but I will always cherish the things that I have gained through my loss. Way too many things to mention in one blog...till next time,
Amy
'Lew Wallace's book Ben-Hur tells the story of a Jewish aristocrat betrayed by his friend and condemned to serve as a galley slave in the Roman navy. On a forced march to the ship, Judah Ben-Hur meets Jesus of Nazareth, whose compassion fills him with hope. Eventually, Ben-Hur saves the Roman commander during battle. In gratitude, the commander adopts Ben-Hur as his son, instantly elevating him from slave to heir.
That's what happens to us when God adopts us into his family. But great privilege brings great responsibility. Paul said that we become "heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him" (Rom. 8:17) The gospel does not say"Come to Jesus and live happily ever after." God's syllabus for His children's education includes training through hardships.
Ben-Hur's years of enduring hardship as a roman slave strengthened him and increased his endurance. He eventually defeated his "friend-turned-enemy" in a chariot race.
As endurance and training were key to Ben-Hur's victory, so are they vital in the Christian's war with sin and evil. The hard times we endure are God's way to prepare us for greater service for His glory.'
As I look back on my life I think of the hardships and joys. The hardest thing I've had to go through is losing my son, Todd. It was such a shock and certainly nothing I ever thought I'd have to go through. There were questions, why me? what did I do? why didn't You work a miracle? The thing is I didn't 'do' anything, losing Todd was not punishment for anything. Also, God did work a miracle, just not in the way I would have chose. He showed me what His comfort feels like and how to comfort others. He showed me how to be joyful while I'm suffering. He showed me that even though I will go through hard times I will always have Him, I will never lose God. Again, I would never have chosen to say goodbye to my son, but I will always cherish the things that I have gained through my loss. Way too many things to mention in one blog...till next time,
Amy
Monday, July 28, 2008
My boys, our story
My boys are so special to me. My firstborn, Todd Austin, was with us for a very short time. He was a beautiful boy, looked just like his daddy. Except, he did have my toes, the second toe was longer than his big toe. I'm very proud of that!:) When we had to say goodbye to him, I was so scared that we would not have another boy, or maybe not another baby at all. I tend to let my emotions get the better of me. Luckily, God is more powerful than my raging hormones. Only a few months later I found out I was pregnant again. For some women this would not be good news, but my God is a very personal God. He knew what I needed (and how impatient I am). When I found out, half of me hoped it was a girl. I thought maybe that would make it easier. The other half wanted a boy. God wanted us to have another son. When Adam (we named him Adam, because he was our new beginning) was born, he looked completely different than his brother. He looks like his mommy. Except he doesn't have my toes! Fortunately, he acts like his daddy. He's a very laid back little man. I am again amazed at how my God is a God of details. He knew that for some reason Adam looking so different was easier for me. I can't really explain it, but my emotions tend to be a bit complicated.
Now, I will jump ahead a bit. In the year 2005 I found out God was giving us another baby. Would this be our girl? No. God was blessing us with another boy, Daniel. When I was pregnant with Daniel I was doing a Bible study, by Beth Moore, Daniel. It's an amazing study, you should check it out. Daniel was a man who stood up for his beliefs and was on fire for God. Sometimes I think our Daniel stands up for his 'beliefs' a little too much, he's only two. By the way, his middle name means "fiery", which he definitely is. Daniel looks more like his daddy, a little more like Todd, but still similar to his brother, Adam.
Again, jumping a bit. Last year John and I decided our family wasn't quit complete. We decided to try one more time. Not to just try for a girl, but to welcome whoever God brings to us. He brought us Caleb. Yes, another boy! He is the spitting image of his brother, Todd. He even has my toes. What a blessing! God is also a God of timing, his timing. He knows even though my emotions still waver, I have learned to calm them with God's help. Actually, it's pretty much all God. I am not a strong person. That's what makes my story so amazing. Because it's not just my story. It's our story, God's and mine. A story about how God worked in the life of a woman, a woman like me.
Now, I will jump ahead a bit. In the year 2005 I found out God was giving us another baby. Would this be our girl? No. God was blessing us with another boy, Daniel. When I was pregnant with Daniel I was doing a Bible study, by Beth Moore, Daniel. It's an amazing study, you should check it out. Daniel was a man who stood up for his beliefs and was on fire for God. Sometimes I think our Daniel stands up for his 'beliefs' a little too much, he's only two. By the way, his middle name means "fiery", which he definitely is. Daniel looks more like his daddy, a little more like Todd, but still similar to his brother, Adam.
Again, jumping a bit. Last year John and I decided our family wasn't quit complete. We decided to try one more time. Not to just try for a girl, but to welcome whoever God brings to us. He brought us Caleb. Yes, another boy! He is the spitting image of his brother, Todd. He even has my toes. What a blessing! God is also a God of timing, his timing. He knows even though my emotions still waver, I have learned to calm them with God's help. Actually, it's pretty much all God. I am not a strong person. That's what makes my story so amazing. Because it's not just my story. It's our story, God's and mine. A story about how God worked in the life of a woman, a woman like me.
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Monday, July 21, 2008
Nacham
I was reading A Heart Like His, by Beth Moore. In it she mentions the Hebrew word Nacham. It's meaning stood out to me: 'the idea of breathing deeply as a physical display of one's feeling, usually sorrow, compassion, or comfort.' The word was used in II Samuel 12:24, where it meant 'being consoled over the death of an infant child.' This word seems to describe a lot about me.
On October 10, 2001 I went to the hospital to give birth to my first born son. My water had already broke, but I wasn't having any contractions. I was told it was going to be awhile and was put on a monitor. Just your basic story...but then everything changed. The baby started kicking and they lost him on the monitor, the nurse started checking on things and noticed I was bleeding. I was put on oxygen and my nurse started prepping me for an emergency c-section. They couldn't get in touch with my doctor, so the doctor on call came and performed the c-section. It all happened so fast, not once did I actually think I would lose my baby. When I woke up I was told I had a total placenta abruption and the baby didn't make it. This all happened within 10 or so minutes, but it was the longest day of my life. I felt such intense sorrow, didn't think I could ever get over that feeling. I probably wouldn't have either if it wasn't for God and the family and friends that He put in my life. Don't get me wrong even after six years and three boys later, I still have my moments. But, God always gives me the comfort and compassion that I need when I need it. II Corinthians 1 talks about God's comfort and how we can share that same comfort with others, through the sorrow that we have been through. I hope to be able to do that throughout my life, to comfort others, to tell them my story. Only God can give you joy in the midst of sorrow.
On October 10, 2001 I went to the hospital to give birth to my first born son. My water had already broke, but I wasn't having any contractions. I was told it was going to be awhile and was put on a monitor. Just your basic story...but then everything changed. The baby started kicking and they lost him on the monitor, the nurse started checking on things and noticed I was bleeding. I was put on oxygen and my nurse started prepping me for an emergency c-section. They couldn't get in touch with my doctor, so the doctor on call came and performed the c-section. It all happened so fast, not once did I actually think I would lose my baby. When I woke up I was told I had a total placenta abruption and the baby didn't make it. This all happened within 10 or so minutes, but it was the longest day of my life. I felt such intense sorrow, didn't think I could ever get over that feeling. I probably wouldn't have either if it wasn't for God and the family and friends that He put in my life. Don't get me wrong even after six years and three boys later, I still have my moments. But, God always gives me the comfort and compassion that I need when I need it. II Corinthians 1 talks about God's comfort and how we can share that same comfort with others, through the sorrow that we have been through. I hope to be able to do that throughout my life, to comfort others, to tell them my story. Only God can give you joy in the midst of sorrow.
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